"Mom, do you have some good pictures of Grandma?" she asked me.
"Sure, I have some really nice ones," I responded. "What do you need?"
"I want to wear her picture on the sleeve of my tee shirt for the
P*atrick D*empsey Challenge."
So began our time going through photos last evening. We looked at this one taken in September, 2010.
My mother and my grandmother
We smiled a little and said how odd it is to think that we had them both a year ago. I named this photo "An Autumn Walk," though it was winter for them both. My grandmother would be off to Glory in just a few short weeks and my mother in three short months.
Then we looked at this one...
My daughter and my mother
It's a favorite of mine. My daughter thought it needed cropping and so started in when I said, "Wait a minute, you're cropping off your grandmother's hug."
My daughter looked a little startled and then her face began to crinkle and soon mine mirrored hers. "I never knew that she had her arm around me, " she whispered.
"Yes, she did and don't be surprised if she sits on your handlebars and enjoys the ride in October."
At that thought, we chuckled through our tears. We've not cried together like this since January. It was good to talk about my mother. I think we'll do it more often tears or not.